How do you deal with the situation that your husband is not real dad for your baby?

Have you confirmed that the baby is definitely not your husband's? Have you told your husband, or the baby's real father. If so then you better come clean. I know it might seem tempting to sweep everything under the rug and hopefully no one will find out but these things usually have a way of coming back to haunt you and your family. It's not a conversation anyone wants to be a part of but it is a conversation that needs to happen.