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Do you try to talk to your daugther about the reasons she refuses to go to school? If you are unable to find out the reasons please approach her class teachers to understand the actual situation in school. Normally children refuse to go to school due to reasons such as bully cases, teachers' scolding, separation anxiety from parents, major events happen at home e.g. divorce/death, fell down and etc. Once you find out the reason, you can explain to your daugther about the situation and encourage her to take a step from there. My daughter, when she was in N1, refused to go to school and I found out from teacher that the teacher scolded another student who was misbehaved in class. Thus, I explained to my daughter teacher was not scolding her and will not scold students who are behaving well. After that she is not so traumatised by the event and love going to school again.
That's quite sad. Maybe something about school is bothering her. Was she bullied before? Or maybe she's afraid of the new classmates and misses her friends from the nursery school. My niece was scared too as she's seen her big brother's school. She said she didn't like how the school looks like and heard about not-so-good experiences of her brother. We talked to her and explained how exciting it will be to learn how to draw and write her own name, etc. We helped her shop for her supplies and shoes. We told her our own fun experiences about first day of school and of course our allowance we got from our parents and the coin banks where we save part of it. She eventually felt excited about going to school. Maybe you need to talk to her and encourage her to be honest about what she feels and share your own stories with her as well. Hope this helps your little girl.
did you try to talk to her? maybe something has happened in school that makes her feel sad or uncomfortable or scared? did you try talking to her about it? i would say if she is very uncomfortable, don't force her and let her be at home with you for a few days. for some time, don't talk about school either. gradually bring up the topic and see if she had a fight, if someone hit her or anything happened that could have led to this. talk to the teachers.
that is a difficult phase. i would say you let your child rest at home for some time, then tell her about all the fun activities she can do at school. if possible, take her around the school and let her meet the teachers without pressurizing her to go to class. she may need some time to get comfortable again, but speak to the teachers and i am sure they will understand too.
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