How do you cope with this? No matter how much you try to be beautiful for your husband/partner, he still says, "You are not taking care of yourself anymore". It's like whatever you do, it's not enough for him that you end up being embarrassed of your battle scars from giving birth to your child. You do not like him to see you even halfnaked (when you're dressing up) because he might point out your flaws again. How do you get that self-confidence back when he is the putting you down? Though you know he isn't being mean, just genuinely concerned but jn a wrong way...? ?

I don not know how do you say this, but I think it is very mean of him to pin point about your body, I mean in the way he is bringing it up again and again. Isn't it quite obvious for him that after having a baby your body will go through changes. But, yes, you can keep yourself in shape, that as you said you are doing everything. I think you should put it across to your husband and let him know how you feel about his concern. Ask him how will he feel if you keep on pinpointing his potbelly or any of his personality's aspect! Be honest about your feelings in a good way and I am sure he will understand.