How to stop comparing

How do you avoid comparing your kids to each other? As a mum I find myself wanting to say things like "look at your brother, he studies way more than you. Or "see what he got for PSLE, you make sure you match up too." I hate it, but it comes so naturally to me! #comparingkids

Pavin Chopra

Momsy of 2 sweet magicians

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I think all kids are different and is talented in their own ways. Maybe your younger ones are not so talented in studying but he may have his own strengths (maybe more artistic, musically inclined etc). Good in studies may not be the more successful one in the future. Just look at things from another angle :)

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Home Just Mums how avoid comparing your kids each other mum i find myself wanting say things like look your brother studies way more than see what got psle make sure match too i hate but comes naturally