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Been through the same situation as you and my husband respect his parents a lot so I am left to handle them on my own. What I did is I told my PILs In front of my Husband that I understand their concerns towards my children but it is my children; they have their chance to parents their kids (which is my Husband) so now it is my turn. If we can't have their understanding and respect on my parenting style then I might have to stop visiting them or allowing them to come over often to avoid any conflict. To let them know I mean it I never visit them for months until they told my Husband they miss the kids and will "work" with us.

Exactly! They had their chance and now let me have mine rite? Sheesh..

same situation, but mine is my parents. My in laws side did say stuff too, I ignore and insisted my own way. I let my action tells my parents and in laws to back off. I don't care how they feel I only care about my LO, no time for drama. Is my LO I give birth to him so back off when I am in control.

Whenever an incident happens, did u try to on the spot talk to mil and explain to her? That could possibly be one of the way out. Most importantly u cannot lose ur cool, if not it will deem as ur fault for being disrespectful. Rule of the "game" is never lose your cool. Smile as much while explaining to her. :)

I did. With a smile. But aya u kw la.. They have an idea of their own n watever u say doesnt make a difference. It only adds on to more topic for them to bitch about at e coffeeshop wif the other aunties. Sigh

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Totally know how you feel. I will just say her immediately. Sorry to be rude but I have a limit when it comes to my inlaws trying to meddling with my parenting styles.

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I just ignore. After awhile it will die off. It took me 2 years Try speaking out to your husband about it too.

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