suami suka cakap kata² x baik

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hmmm sy dah penat nak tegur🥹ank dah nak msuk 2thn, sy mmg jaga setiap kali bckp depan ank x nak kluarkn ayt yg x baik.Tpi mcm sia², suami suka sgt kluarkn kata x baik, cthnya a*jing laa, b*bi , ishh b*doh betul, s*al  sy takut ank akn ikut😭😭😭sy dah penat asyik tegur hari² & dia cuma jwb knpa pula? bkn ank fhm pun smpai sy merajuk x nak bckp lngsung tau🥲🥲 #Needadvice #mohonbantujawabbunda #mohonbantujawabbunda #mohonbantujawabbunda #askmommies #sharing #firstmom #firstmom

Vô danh · Answer

Honestly, your concern is so valid, children at that age are like little sponges, and even if they do not seem to understand yet, they are absorbing everything around them. Sometimes it helps to approach your husband at a calm, neutral moment (not when he has just said something), and gently explain that even before children can speak, they are already storing what they hear, so the habit forms in us before it forms in them. Some husbands genuinely do not realise the impact, thinking it is just casual speech from how they were raised, so framing it as "this is about protecting our child" rather than "you are doing something wrong" can make him less defensive. If gentle reminders alone are not working, perhaps suggest speaking with a kaunselor keluarga together, because sometimes hearing it from a neutral third party lands differently than hearing it from a spouse. You are doing beautifully by being so mindful, and I hope your husband comes to understand how much this truly matters.

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