Hindi po ba nagiging selfish ang parents ko dahil ayaw nila ipakita o magkaron ng connection yong baby ko sa dady nya as well sa family nya, gustong gusto nya po kaming panagutan ng baby namin, pero ayaw sa kanya ng pamilya ko for some reason gaya ng family background, at magkaiba religion namin, catholic kami born again sila?, nahihirapan po ako para sa baby ko dahil balang araw magtatanong sya about sa daddy nya??

Based on what you have stated, it may seem a bit unfair for the dad of your kid. Kasi ang nagdecide na iexclude sya sa buhay ng sarili nyang anak ay mga magulang mo. Kung mayroon man na dapat magdecide para sa baby mo, ikaw yun. So it's up to you to assess kung ano ba ang gusto mo mangyari lalo na para sa anak mo. You mentioned naman na willing panagutan nung daddy yung anak nyo. If you decide na sundin ang magulang mo and ilayo si baby, I agree with Elle na please be fair naman sa daddy ng anak mo. Like huwag nyo sasabihin na tinakasan yung responsibilidad etc. If you decide naman na bigyan ng chance yung daddy, talk to your parents. Tell them na hindi mo naman sila gustong suwayin but ganito yung mga considerations mo (then state them).

If ikaw po, ano ang decision mo bilang nanay? If you are fine na lumaki yung baby mo without any connection sa daddy nya, nasa sa yo po yun. But if ever magtanong yung baby mo kapag lumaki na sya, please be fair din sa daddy ng anak mo. Kasi sabi mo gusto ka naman panagutan, parents mo lang ang may ayaw. So don't say anything bad naman sa baby mo tungkol sa daddy nya.

If you feel that the dad really deserves a space in your life, you should know and find ways to stand up for your decision. You find a right time to explain to your parents na sana they should respect your decision because no matter what happens, he is still the father of your baby.

It's up to you if you want maging involve yung daddy sa buhay ng anak nyo, lalo na if gusto naman nya panagutan. I understand may reason ang parents mo kung bakit ayaw nila, but do you agree to those reasons? Bilang nanay, ikaw po makakapagassess kung ano makakabuti sa baby mo.

At the end of the day, the decision to include the father of your child in your life falls on you. After all, you're the mother. All you can do is let your parents understand that it's important for a child to grow up knowing a father and a mother.

They're just trying to protect you just like any other parents do. If you feel na the guy deserves to have you both in his life then give it a try. It's your own life. You know him better for sure than your parents do.

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