Hi mummies, is your child the only child? Are you trying to have a second one? As I cant decide to have another one or not. Lately my daughter told me that she is very bored as no one plays with her. I would like to have another one but too many thoughts and worries in my mind (eg. to send to infant care or to get maid, to start all over again, it is very tiring and beside I had a miscarriage last year). The fear is still there.

At this current moment neither my parents nor my in laws are able to take care of my baby. Hence I'm the sole caregiver of my daughter. I don't think I will be able to handle another baby 10 months down from now. Probably in another few years' time. But that will also mean putting my professional aspirations on hold again, which I will gladly do. My husband is not too keen on putting the baby with a babysitter and also mentioned he does not want to put baby in infant care. So we don't have much of a choice.