My personal advise would be to visit them over when they are done with confinement. Let them have a good rest, recover and heal. Always choose the lunch period/tea period to visit them. Not at night because they will have sleepless night and need rest. I would avoid hospital visit esp during this time of virus in the air. Plus hospital like KKH only allow 2 visitor including husband. So better not. You can visit them during baby shower. No harm though. Afterall it is an event.
The pangtang people will tell you it’s not advisable to visit cause will “clash happiness”. Personally I visited my friend after her confinement. I was in trimester 2 then, no issue.
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U can send over a gift to the house first, then visit after confinement or 100 days depending on your friend’s condition. Each individual recovers differently
Avoid ba. Visit them after confinement. She will be so tired in hospital n no time to entertain you too i guess.
Everything is possible if you not pantang.
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