Can’t connect w husband emotionally after baby is born

You can see it in a positive light, it's good to have some balance because if both parents are panicking all the time then it will be chaotic, if both are chill then baby is neglected. So maybe it's good you and your husband complement each other. Make sure he's also helping out with baby or housework, then if you can get help try to get away from baby for a while to have alone date time with husband from time to time.