Pregnancy envy

Had 2 miscarriages within 6 months. Even though my husband and close friends stayed by my side, I still feel very lonely at times. It feels like a dark hole that just keep sucking me in. I know some use work to distract themselves but I am the opposite - I have no motivation to work at all and just want to quit and take a break 😅 Pardon my random rant…but I have a gf who always complain about her pregnancy (her 2nd now). From morning sickness to food aversion to heartburn to the ‘ever growing bump that’s getting in her way’. Seriously I 🙄🙄🙄 everytime I see her posts, I got really triggered until I had to mute her account. I really hope she will realise how blessed she is and be more considerate to other ttc ladies. I feel like a crazy selfish bitch sometimes😪 but honestly I can no longer treat her/this friendship like how things used to be anymore. Any advice to help me overcome this🥺

Vô danh

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don't be jealous of your friend. some people have been through worst than you. at least you are still fertile and just keep on trying. don't give up don't compare yourself with others.

Vô danh

2y trước

Thanks for your reply, Heidi. You said not to compare myself to others and there are people who have been through the worse than me. But aren’t you the one comparing me to others😅 What makes you think and say that my journey is ‘easier’ compared to others though? I acknowledge that everyone has own struggles and we all cope with grief differently. I am not jealous of my friend but more like hoping/expecting her to be more tactful with her words and considerate towards my feelings, for the fact that she is my friend and is very well aware of my loss.

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