Pregnancy envy

Had 2 miscarriages within 6 months. Even though my husband and close friends stayed by my side, I still feel very lonely at times. It feels like a dark hole that just keep sucking me in. I know some use work to distract themselves but I am the opposite - I have no motivation to work at all and just want to quit and take a break 😅 Pardon my random rant…but I have a gf who always complain about her pregnancy (her 2nd now). From morning sickness to food aversion to heartburn to the ‘ever growing bump that’s getting in her way’. Seriously I 🙄🙄🙄 everytime I see her posts, I got really triggered until I had to mute her account. I really hope she will realise how blessed she is and be more considerate to other ttc ladies. I feel like a crazy selfish bitch sometimes😪 but honestly I can no longer treat her/this friendship like how things used to be anymore. Any advice to help me overcome this🥺

Vô danh

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Sorry to hear your losses but don’t be discouraged as hope is always there if you persevere. I had miscarriage in 2019 and only managed to conceive in 2022 too. Had numerous IUI and eventually succeeded in IVF. There are so many bumpy rides throughout the years but as long as we tried , there will always be hope. I also was very sensitive when my friends talked about kids topic during meetup until I kinda distanced myself away even for years. It takes time to heal for sure and u r definitely normal !!! Wishing you all the best for your next try and your dream will definitely come true ☺️

Vô danh

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Thanks Melody for sharing your experience too. Enjoy ur motherhood!😊

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