Ay sis, nakakahirap yan talaga lalo na 5 months ka na ng baby Marinig ko talaga ang alalahanin mo, hindi ka nag-overthink, valid lahat ng nararamdaman mo dito. Honestly, a few of my mum friends have been through something similar, at ang consistent na sinasabi nila is na kailangan niyo talaga ng honest conversation, pero hindi lang basta usapan, kailangan ng action from him. The patterns you're describing (the lying, coming home late, still having contact with someone kahit nagsabi sya ng iba) ay red flags na kailangan addressing, hindi i-ignore hoping it goes away. One friend swore by couples counseling kasi para malakas ang communication between them, at may third person na neutral, and honestly nakita niya na worth it talaga especially bago mag-land ang baby. But here's the thing, you rin need to think about what you can and cannot accept, hindi lang sya. Ang stress mo ngayon ay makakasama sa pregnancy mo at sa baby. Don't just "allow" things hoping he'll respect boundaries; kailangan ninyong both mag-agree kung ano ang healthy for your family. If he's not willing to be transparent or make real changes, that's information din na kailangan mo for yourself and your child. Please talk to your OB or a counselor din about what you're going through emotionally, pregnancy stress plus relationship problems ay heavy, at deserve mo ng support. Malakas ka, but you don't have to carry this alone.