Do BLW then slowly progress to utensils my baby 9 months can self feed occasionally with utensils have been doing BLW since 6.5 months! Every baby is different! She literally puts everything in her mouth no matter food or toys or door stopper by literally I mean LITERALLY everything she can get her hands on she’ll put in her mouth! There’s good and bad for this but like this I dont need try hard to teach her! Start slow! If dont want BLW then try getting plates and utensils that are cute or what not so baby will be attracted to it!