Can you forgive your spouse who has lied to u for 4 years or even more, only told the truth after much interrogation.

It depends on what it is about. For me, my husband has lied as well. But they are trival. So when i weigh it, i let it slide. I choose my battles. For the things which he has done for me are way much more. You know your husband, no one else does. Outsiders can only comment, the person who you live with is your husband and no one else. You will know the truth, calm yourself slowly and search deep within.