Aih, I understand lah, super frustrating when they refuse to eat! At that age, a few of my mum friends went through the same thing, and honestly sometimes it's a phase, tapi kena check with the doc jugak because if dia tak gain weight or ada other signs, might be something else going on. Have you tried letting dia feed herself with hands, or different textures, some toddlers refuse smooth puree tapi okay with finger foods? Hang in there, mama, this phase does pass!