I totally understand how overwhelming this must feel right now, sending you a hug. A few people I know have actually seen Dr Jen Shek Wei for this, and they've all mentioned that he's very straightforward about explaining the difference between medical and surgical abortion, which really helped them feel less in the dark. From what they've shared, the experience was manageable, one friend said she felt quite supported through the process, though she did mention there's a fair bit to take in emotionally, so it's good to go in knowing what to expect. Most importantly, he's been recommended by quite a few mums in similar situations, so you'd probably feel in safe hands. Since this is your first time and everyone's situation is a bit different, it's really worth having a proper chat with Dr Jen Shek Wei (or your own doctor if you prefer) to go through all the details specific to you, timings, what happens during and after, any health stuff that matters. They'll be able to answer all your questions much better than hearsay can. You've got this. Take care of yourself.
Yes, I had mine at Dr Jen Shek Wei’s clinic too. I understand why you’re worried, especially when it’s your first time and you’re unsure about the cramping and bleeding. I felt the same, but he guided me through the medical abortion and follow-up properly. My recovery went well, and having a doctor I trusted made the whole experience much less stressful. ❤️🤍