Single Mom To Be

Hello! This is my first pregnancy.. And Ill be doing it without partner@husband@father to be besides me.. Im still curious about this little baby inside me ans Im also nervous about making her clinic book in government hospitals. I just scanned it and Im 14w 2d. ❤️?Much love from me.

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im a single mom too. not married but my partner is here to help financially.since he is a foreigner its hard to get his documents done. i made my pink book at 3 weeks in kl.they will just advice u.ignore the judgements as they dont know what u are going through.as long as u are strong u will be fine. they will refer u to social worker.im going to see mine this wednesday.social worker is just there to help u. as a single mom,i think u should prepare urself. its nice if u have family support. if u dont have family support u can ask help from the social worker.whatever u do,dont give up.btw,im 35weeks now.im not working and my family is taking care of me since i decide to go back to kuching sarawak.we want to keep the baby.my advice is start saving atleast rm500 a month from now.because u do need to buy baby stuffs and pay hospital bills.gov hospital should be less than rm500.and like i said,dont be shy to ask help from social worker.they wont take ur baby unless u give to them. im proud of u for being strong.not everyone can face the judgement of others of being a single mom.incase u are wondering,the baby's father can sign the birth cert if u are non muslim.not sure abt muslim.

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just got back from my social worker interview. yes still need to go even if u almost reach 30.im 22 and they refer because single mother.i asked,they confirm to me that they wont take the baby.throughout the interview,its all about who u are staying with,family knows or not,any plans to get married,family background,u working or not.all that.if u choose not to get married its fine for them too because they only care for mother and baby. they dont care about the baby's father because for them its not a surprised men is useless.they will only take the child if there is high risk like mother doing drugs or have mental illness.other than that they wont take. hope this helps. and congrats on ur pregnancy. i hope ur pregnancy is as smooth as mine or better ❤❤