Just felt like ranting a bit. When I was pregnant, a particular aunt of my hubby's loved to touch me. She is in her 50s and has a 25yo son of her own. I am not at all close to her but she kept patting my baby bump expectedly. She even stroked my butt and placed her hands and slide down fr the side of my waist down to my hips! At my baby's full month celebration, she actually came up to me to say "you still need to work hard and slim down abit more" when in fact the whole world was politely lamenting that I have shrunk and gone back almost to my pre-pregnancy size! Recently at a family gathering (when baby was 5mo), the first thing she did when she saw me, was to check me out from head to toe and comment, ok you slimmed down?! Like seriously?! She is not slim herself and does not run a modelling agency nor a gym nor a bootcamp. Why can't these people keep their hands to themselves and keep their mouth shut?

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I feel u too.. I got an aunt oso somehow like this... My father sil somemore.. And she love to say.. Wow.. U fatter den ur older sister.. Lol.. I alway shoot back.. Oh. Becoz i got 2 kids she got 1. Lol.. Make myself happy. Anyway to make myself more haooy.. I much taller den my sis and i got heavybone.. That is y i much look bigger den my sis. Hahhahahahha.. Dun bother wad other say.. I alway right ear in and left ear out.. Sometime oso no in.. Hahaha.

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haha.. sometimes hard to one ear in one ear out. Esp if same person likes to target you. Very annoying these older folks. Somemore she is the more modern kind.. I am not her niece but her nephew's wife and I am not close to her at all... Even my own close family members respect me.