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Feels so drain mentally. Am not a stay at home mum, tentatively serving 3rd month maternity leaves.. Currently baby is 3 months old.. 1st round was when she had Colic, she cried tearing wall down for 2 weeks and recover.. Than she got scare again because the door slam a few times while she's sleeping and she got scared and that serving goes on another 1 - 2 weeks.. Than she recovered for about 2 weeks sleeping easily coxing her less than 1 to 2hrs max she's able to fall asleep on my arms and i place her down to bed to sleep nicely and peacefully without major fuss crying to rock her to sleep.. Than Recently, again, she got scared because my son accidently slammed the door 1 day and the dog bark on another day.. She's currently on scared mode again for pass 1 week.. I feel soooooo drained that I have no patient to cox her and carry her and rock her to sleep anymore.. My husband sees me getting out of patience he did try to cox her to sleep but fail, she cry louder, and longer time to sleep, sometimes nv sleep until I cool myself down again and carry her back and she fall asleep. I have Use essential oil on her, eat Jing Fong San, healing music, white noise.. ANYTHING I've tried.. Didn't work. HELP.. I really dono what she wants and how to cox her than she cna cool down

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I feel you. How about swaddling her or get a swaddling so she feel more secure? Babies need a lot of love, security and patience. Try asking your husband for help or someone you can trust. Or even engage a part time nanny so you can get some rest. Your baby need the best version of you!!!

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Oh, maybe she is too warm. Have you tried adjusting the temperature? Babies like it cold but not too cold. It’s a lot of trial and error. Hang in there!