Mom In Law

Just feeling annoyed but not sure where to share... Mom in law asked me n my 2 boys 4 yrs old and 3 mths old to come over to my bro inlaw house. No occasion. Just that she is going there so she asked us to come over. I agreed coz i thought its in the afternoon. Turns our she arrived there at 7plus and expect me to come over soon after. ? My husb is working though so its just us 3. My baby needs to sleep by 10 so that i can REST. Im just surprised and upset that she was being self centered and not thinking of my situation. If she really wants to meet my baby why not come over to my place then? ?

Fizah

Mama bear of 2 fun loving son

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Yes understand. They jz want to see e kids n didn’t think far that kids must sleep at certain timing. They think “aiya, kids can sleep here anytime. It’s own family.” Different generation n parenting style. I would be annoyed too I would check with her each time is she will be there by certain timing, just communicate with her that kids needs to sleep by 10pm and you need to rest. Also kids sleep late, mummies like us. Will be more exhausted. Or you can go, definitely anytime in e day. But just let her know that if she reached at 7-8pm. You just call her n say you need to rest/unwell etc need to go back. At least you make an effort to go there with 2 kids ( sometimes this is to avoid in law comments ) If bil house is far. you tell her, hands are full to bring two kids n travel far. If she wanna visit u n kids, jz come over with bil? If bil house is near. At any day when you are free n feeling fresh. Or go with whole family on weekends

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