honestly, really depends on you and your partner.. (and in laws/parents) too la.. just told my mil that we don't intend to do any of the 2... nor will we be sending out cakes.
maybe I am quite very paranoid... but I can't see myself inviting a whole village of people gathering around my newborn at the age of 1mth or 100days. like the amount of germs and what not just...... freaks me out.
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