Tama lang yan sis, na bumukod kayo. Dapat mgusap kayo ni mister yung mahinahon lang din sya. Nung ng counseling kme bago kmi ikasal tinanong ni Pastor mister ko if okay lang ba daw na tumulong sa magulang financially. Ang sagot ni mister is okay lang as long as sobra2. And the pastor said “tama”. Sa buhay mg asawa hindi masama ang tumulong pa dn aa magulang but make sure u know who is ur priority now. And now that we are married, his priority is me and our baby na, second nlng ang parents. And parents knows that but not all can understand. Continue to respect ur husband parents no matter what, para mas mahalin kpa dn ng asawa mo. If sasabayan mo nanay nia, matutuliro ang husband mo. Let him manage his own mother, nasa kanya nalang cgro kung sino ang mas pipiliin nia at sino ang mas priority nia. Pero don’t feel wrong bec. U decided na bumukod. It’s a right decision sis, kase mas maganda na makita nio yung expenses nio tlga and ang reality ng buhay may asawa.
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