Handling toddler

Hi everyone , im 6 weeks pregnant & i have a 2 YO daughter. She is very clingy to me always want me to carry her everywhere , despite telling her that i having a baby inside my tummy cant carry her …. ( im oso worried that might affect my baby in the tummy) cos im not sure if this counted as heavy or not. Whats worst is she only want me to carry her my MIL or my husband she oso dw. & i m taking care of her myself my husband is working most of the time only 1 day off …. My only rest time is when she go school …. Any mummies having the same problem as me ? How u solve this problem?;) #advicepls

Vô danh

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hello! gonna say it's not easy but u'll just manage it somehow. I have 3yo daughter and 2yo son who don't go to school and I'm pregnant (giving birth anytime already) it was madness initially. as much as I want help from my mum (cause staying with parents), I still ended up doing things on my own since she has chores to do. ultimately, I changed my mindset and told myself that no one is going to help me unless I help myself. so basically for tt 9 months, I managed my kids on my own from day to night. there were times I was totally burnt out and kept crying non stop AND TT'S OKAY. husband did step up even more this time. but u will realise that you also won't be able to have that much rest as the previous times cause now need to step up and all. In short, it is NOT gonna be easy but it IS manageable if you tell yourself that I'm gonna take one day at a time since I'm gonna do this on my own. you got this mummy! 💪🏽

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