Hi mama, I totally understand, ang hirap talaga ng side effects, lalo na kung palaging headaches, kaya gusto mo na mag-stop na! Pero honestly, this is something you really need to talk to your OB about kasi iba-iba ang timing ng fertility once you stop, at may other options din sila na pwede i-suggest na mas okay sa'yo, may mga moms in my circle na nag-switch ng pill brand or method and it worked better. Your doctor can also give you the safest way to stop without shocking your body, so please make an appointment soon, okay? In the meantime, yes, abstinence is the surest way to avoid pregnancy, pero mas mapapahusay talaga ang plan mo with professional advice. Take care, at sana mabilis ma-address ang headaches mo!