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i share today senario.. we going to my niece 5yo birthday party.. i took back less than 1.3k this month and bank left $50 now.. husband bought air ticket back hometown so he say he left $100.. he ask me to pay for his lunch and i told him i cant offer good food but i can use ezlink to pay for mac.. his choice of food cannot food court one.. then he say i left 2 weeks to salary but he left 3 weeks, so does it sound like i can have no money to eat lunch and must spend the $50 for his lunch today but he must have money to eat lunch? he say dont want mac cause eat many times already.. i dont cook and he say i must care for his food cause all wife do.. but i dont cook then even j try to cook, he also pinpoint.. then his term use on me always say i stupid, no brain, brainless.. always say why my son so handsome, cause daddy handsome.. why my son brain not good, cause mommy brain not good.. still ask me go xray to see if i do have a brain.. ive been tolerating this type of sentence for 3 years now.. once, we were home to take care my son (my mom is the caretaker) and i was bathing.. husband using laptop and my son climb the safety gate to the kitchen.. i ask husband to bring him to living room and after i bath come out, i saw that he lock my son in the room and he using his laptop outside.. where got father like that one.. if is not preggy with #1 at that time, i would have already break up the relationship but my #1 comes too fast.. haiz less than 6 months married liao.. please advise.. even when i try to communicate, i dont know what to say..
For me, it would be infidelity and violence. For a couple to get married, they must have come a long way. Moreover, both of u have children so divorce is not only between u both but concerns the children too. They are innocent parties. Communicate to your spouse on the breaking down of your marriage. Give each other some time to cool down and think. Divorce is always the last resort.
he dont communicate one.. i tried but he always make it become i was the one who disapppoint him.. i dont even know how to communicate..
Divorce is such a painful subject and I feel it should always be a last resort. But off the top of my head, here are some of the reasons: 1) Infidelity 2) Abuse 3) Irreconcilable differences 4) Money Here's an article about top reasons why couples in Singapore get a divorce. Pretty bleak :( http://sg.theasianparent.com/5-reasons-why-couples-divorce/
frankly speaking.. me and my husband only know each other less than 6 months then got preggy and married due to my #1.. but recently, i find it quite hard to be his wife.. he expect everything go his way and always think im not good in every way.. i dont know how to be a wife and i really find it hard to please him.. now preg with #2 and our house coming in 2020.. i dont know whether i can endure.. right now, im feeling like im enduring him especially when we quarrel..
My parents divorced and dad remarried. When I was young, I knew my parents would divorce and they did eventually. Dad was abusive, drunk and womaniser. Pointless to stay in a toxic relationship. BTW, he is verbally abusing you. That is mental torture.
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I think violence or cheat that is I can't accept. Married is a trust if someone that I love he bit me or cheating I think is the only way can stop the married is divorce.
Actually if you are looking for legal grounds - this is a decent summary - https://singaporelegaladvice.com/law-articles/what-are-the-grounds-for-getting-a-divorce/
Magus Tan