Hindi ka OA, mama, it's completely valid na frustrated ka, lalo na kasi ikaw ang nag-order pa ng dinner for two tapos he just went along with his friends without even texting you first. A few of us mums in my circle have been through this, and honestly, it's not about the friends or being controlling, it's about feeling considered, kaya I get it talaga. The thing is, kailangan ninyong mag-usap about expectations, maybe he doesn't realize na he's making you feel less important than his barkada, kaya sit down with him and tell him how it made you feel, calm lang and not accusatory, and set a plan together (like, let's have dinner together on weeknights, or he texts you if plans change). Most of the time hindi naman intentional ang guys, they just need to be reminded na you matter too.