dinner with hubby

every dinner hinihintay ko dumating asawa ko to eat. kahit gutom na ako hinihintay ko pa rin sya kasi malungkot kumain mag isa. hanggang ngayon sinundo sya ng barkada nya sa work, nag order na ako ng dinner namin. sadly ayon sumama sya barkada nya. kumain. oa po ba na magalit ako? take note hindi ko sya pinag dadamot sa friends nya. everytime na ayain sya ng barkada nya na mag-rides go lang.pag iinom sige inom kayo pero every other day naman para may pahinga asawa ko.

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Hindi ka OA, mama, it's completely valid na frustrated ka, lalo na kasi ikaw ang nag-order pa ng dinner for two tapos he just went along with his friends without even texting you first. A few of us mums in my circle have been through this, and honestly, it's not about the friends or being controlling, it's about feeling considered, kaya I get it talaga. The thing is, kailangan ninyong mag-usap about expectations, maybe he doesn't realize na he's making you feel less important than his barkada, kaya sit down with him and tell him how it made you feel, calm lang and not accusatory, and set a plan together (like, let's have dinner together on weeknights, or he texts you if plans change). Most of the time hindi naman intentional ang guys, they just need to be reminded na you matter too.

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