There will be more or less some conflicts due to difference in thinking and taking care of lo etc. however u can’t directly confront ur mil. Need to explain and resolve any conflicts through ur husband. Or if u feel confident to take care or ur lo urself and have your mother to help out as well, maybe u can have discussion with ur husband on ur preferred option.
Can you negotiate with husband so MIL only comes after baby's out, before that there's not much help needed honestly. But after giving birth you will definitely need help so I wouldn't turn that down.
Super stress. Whole night never sleep. I dunno how to talk to my hubby. He is very happy that his mom is coming down.
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