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Creating fun and exciting routines are a great way to create and recreate the fun everyday! An example: Monday: Movie night - at home or out :) or if you both share a favourite tv show - watch that together Tuesday: Couple's cycling (or any workout you both prefer) Wednesday: Family workout - go for a walk together as a family, etc Thursday: Family workout - go for a walk together as a family, etc Friday: Date night *just the two of you Saturday: Family dinner Sunday: At home d.i.y spa night and a simple stroll by the beach
Bored in marriage? NO Usually if you have kids, this won't happen as kids will make you real busy. U won't have time to think of unnecessary stuff. You may try to have more couple time if you are worried. Sign up foe a course together, do things both of you enjoy, etc ... Give each other surprises. Surprises don't just come when there is an occasion. Most importantly, don't take things for granted.
It is important for couples to have their own individual space and interests instead of just clinging on to one another all the time. Remember the saying, you need to love yourself first before you can love someone -- I think that applies to a marriage or any other relationship. Love yourself, take care of yourself, have your own interest and hobbies and then apply that to your relationship.
I think even though married it's important to have personal space and social gatherings. Take turns to look after kid and go out, not only the bonding with kid gets better, you don't lose touch with friends. Also, create date nights, once or twice a month, getting in laws to help or even close friends! My friends volunteered to take care for me like once a month! :)
Finding new activities to do together as a couple may help. Find a common interest and sign up for a class to attend together. Surprise each other. Small gestures such as giving a stalk of flower for no specific reason, surprise your partner at luch, a spontaneous weekend getaway are all great ways to keep things interesting I feel. :)
I would not say boring in my case --just overly comfortable. We have our routines and I am actually okay with them. After all it took for us to be together, all the drama and obstacles, I'd take boring over not being with him any day. Don't take things forgranted. I think once you do, that's when things get boring.
A simple kiss and hug every morning before you start your day actually can maintain the sparks in your marriage. A marriage will gets bored when a couple starts picking little things to argue, start comparing with other people on how they love each other, etc.. all these because of social media.
Engaged in something that the both of you enjoy. This is definitely be a booster. Although i don't experience this boredom, it's always good to maintain it. Give each other small surprises on and off so that both of you know that you still care about each other.
Find your space. Spend sometimes alone will make couple miss each other. If 'escape gateaway' is not possible, i usually turn back the page, reminding what we love in the past and do it again... or maybe elevate it in the next level
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