I am dying - Wife wants a baby to remember me by
Diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. Doctor gives me tops 1 year to live. We’ve been married for 7 years, no kids. My wife want to get pregnant so she has a child to remember me by when I am gone. I am not sure how I feel. Finances is not a problem for us. Should I say yes?
Hi there, I’m sorry to hear about your situation. I hope for the next 1 year (or longer, we hope), you’ll lead life as fulfilled as you can. As to your question, what are you concerned about to having a child? If you feel that you’re physically able right now to try for a child, why not? Have you shared how you feel with her yet?
Read moreSo sorry to hear that. Perhaps you may discuss with her more and deeply . With all the consideration about upbringing a child in the future. Responsibilities. Emotions. Confidence. Extra hand when in need etc
I am so sorry to hear that. If my husband is in the same situation as you are, I would want to have a child to remember him by. Also, it represents a part of him, always and forever.
even if u say yes, will it be that easy for you to give her a child? considering you guys have been married for 7 years without kids.
Talk to her about it and make sure she thinks about the responsibility. If she’s totally aware, why not ♥️
Should decide n think more.
So sorry to hear about it. It is a really big decision to be made. The both of you should really sit down and discuss about it. As it is not only financial that the both of you should considering at, there is alot of factors to think as well. Take care.