Hubby sensitive ; Mil hoard baby n nag

It so depressing that everytime I go near baby she sleeping n hubby n mil will shoo mi away . . While if I there n baby slp they go peek can. . Feeling unhappy n depressed n when I asked for help . . Hubby say tomorrow end up I need do myself. . N if I tell him I do myself he say I force on him . . He always watching TV n say he tired . . Hand pain . . Back pain. . He know confinement cant touch water but he still keep expecting my help to bath baby n my hands are already suffering from cramps n pain. . I feed I pump n lack of milk . . Nobody seem to understand. . Everyone want a piece of me I told him I depressed but he brush off say no la if u depression u won't say it