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It is quite impossible to raise a child without yelling as we, as a mother also experience temper sometimes, especially when feeling extremely tired. Please do not feel guilty after yelling and blame yourself as this is part of the parenting. However, make sure that you explain to the child and apologise if necessary to the child aftermath. There are some strategies for your to keep away from yelling. E.g. paste simple notes on places that are noticeable and to remind yourself when you are about to 'explode'. I read a lot of parenting books, it is not easy to put them in practice especially when you are exhausted. However, over the time you are able to become better at self-anger management control. It takes time to learn slowly. Here is a book that can guide you on how to parent without yelling.
Absolutely. But you'll need a truck load of patience and a shift in how you see erring children. For the latter, accept that children will fumble and just be there to help them through it instead of losing your temper. Use all missteps of your children as learning opportunities instead of moments to pick on their weaknesses.
Why not? If you have to yell to get things done, then you'd be hoarse most of the time. Yelling and raising your voice makes the environment tense and the kids won't do it willingly either. It's better to keep calm and walk away if you ever feel like yelling. You can use a firm tone so they know you mean business.
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