Do I sound rude?

Before I got pregnant even till before I give birth, I underestimated the love I have towards my baby. Back then when taking care of my niece/nephews, I get annoyed and impatient really quickly. Now my baby keeps me awake all day long and occasionally cries yet I feel happy. I became really protective of my baby (first baby). My mil keeps asking my husband to bring my baby to see his grandmother (which we probably visit during new year and the last is 2 years back). I have no issues, but my baby is barely a week old. She hasn’t got her vaccinations done nor is her immune system built up yet, I’m really worried and annoyed. Is it wrong for me to feel this way?

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I personally felt that 1 week old is too young to go out for visiting. Maybe you can try to talk to your husband? Your husband will explain it to his mother. My baby is 2 months now. Til now, we try not to have any visitors due to covid and other viruses. Only allow close family members and go out to visit mil, my mum house and for doctor appointments. During the first month, we make sure anyone who visits wash their hands and only look, cannot carry baby😅 ( because my baby was hospitalised at 2.5 weeks old due to viral infection. And we don’t want to go through that again)

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