the baby will always have a father.u should not stop him from having that bond with his child. as for your relationship with him,its still your choice if u want to be with him or not. try convincing him to go for counselling to work things out. you go counselling to find the core of the problem. for me he should not leave u and baby when u needed him the most but maybe is just scared. i hope you will find a solution to your problems. lots of love ❤❤❤