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Hi, sorry for your loss! Big hugs! I have 2 miscarriages at wk 6 & wk 9 many yrs back. Take your time to grieve and cry it out. Talk and cry together with your husband if that is possible. Guys usually hold back the grieves and stand strong for us, which is unhealthy for them too. Or cry it out with sister or best friend too. Hard truth is it will not go away anytime soon, it takes one 5-6yrs to get over the grieves, before you are ready to talk about it without crying. My first angel, i think about most as my other 2 SILs were pregnant as well the same yr, cos everytime i saw my nephews, i will think about my angel. Let it out and cry it out. Be strong!
Sorry to hear about your loss.. agree with the mummies commented above.. I had a miscarriage in wk 8 previously.. and it’s normal to feel lots of emotions.. like I kept thinking why this happened, did I do something wrong etc.. only when I’m open to talk about it then I realise many people have gone through once or twice and they still have a number of kids. I feel there’s hope knowing this , so this hope helps me to manage my emotions and allows me to try again. For now just focus on your recovery!
Its okay to feel sad and take time to grief, try again when ready. Meantime, take good care of yourself by eating healthy, taking supplements and keeping fit for at least 3 mths before trying again. (I, myself, miscarried 2 times, 2 failed IUIs, 1 failed IVF) only succeeded with my precious baby girl on 2nd attempt with extra effort by eating healthy, cutting cold drinks, exercising, took alot of supplements and TCM combined for 3 mths prior. I wish you all the best in your ttc journey *hugs*
don't be afraid to grief. it's normal. I had a miscarriage at wk 9 few yrs back. went on to have a beautiful boy and expecting a 2nd one soon. don't be ashamed to talk abt it. you will realise that many have went through the same but just nvr spoke abt it. I found speaking abt it gave me strength to move on. focus on your recovery, your nx pregnancy will come!
Sorry for your loss dear, grief with your husband and everything will be slightly better. to recover it will take sometime, take ur time. try not to listen so much to people when they give you "advices". it's something that you don't want to listen, all u need is comfort for now. I has a loss too, it happened a day after I found out I was pregnant.
Sorry for your loss mama. Feel your feelings and grief as much and as long as u need. Everyone’s process is different and u don’t have to feel there’s a timeline to be ok. When u are ready, start doing things that make u happy or relax u, like a spa, beach day, coffee w friends, whatever it is.
I went through the same twice in 5 months… its been a ride. Take as much time as you need to heal mama ♥️ mainly, don’t ever allow others to comment on your situation. Cos i believe in MC, people’s talking and advises shld have done this and that yadayada that worsen our mental health state.
Thank you for all your kind words! I’m recuperating at the moment & hoping to resume work next week. I’ve had a couple of acquaintances passing remarks & I got offended but I’ve learnt to let it fall to deaf ears. I guess only time will heal all wounds🙂
I had a miscarriage at 9weeks previous… and the month after, I’m pregnant again. Anything is possible, I’m currently at 29weeks with my baby princess. It’s ok to be sad but we all look forward to something brighter. All the best!
sorry for your loss 😢 i also had a mc earlier this year at 9 weeks. i took my time to grief and cry it out. it’s ok not to be ok. took me a few month to recover but trust me, it will get better. 🤍