Insensitive na partner

Question

Bakit parang kasalanan ko pa na maghihiwalay kami ng dahil nasaktan ko sya physically? Eh halos iwan nya nga ako sa ere at ayaw ako bigyan ng assurance na hinihingi ko bago ko sya nasaktan. Sagad na sagad na ako.  Buti sana kung walang ‘history’ kaso meron eh!! Assurance lang kailangan ko!!! 😭😭Btw, I’m 27 weeks pregnant. Sorry baby, feeling ko mas lamang yung stress at sama ng loob habang pinag bubuntis kita 😭

Maria Reyes Garcia · Answer

Ate, I hear your pain, 27 weeks pregnant and carrying all this emotional weight is too much. But please, if you're feeling this overwhelmed or if there's any safety concern with your partner, talk to your OB or a counselor right now, stress like this sa pregnancy ay hindi okay para sa iyo at sa baby. What you're feeling is valid, but ito ay beyond "partner issues", ito ay about your wellbeing habang buntis ka. A few of my mum friends who went through similar situations said na the turning point was getting professional help, hindi lang sa relationship pero pati sa mental health nila during pregnancy. You deserve support, hindi guilt. Honey, you're not the villain here. Kailangan mo ng assurance at consistency from your partner, yan ay basic. But right now, focus muna sa protecting yourself and baby. Please reach out to your OB, a trusted family member, o even a counselor. You don't have to handle this alone.

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