Anyone having the same problems as me? My Husband won't really help me with housework unless I tell him many times to do it. He will then give a unwilling attitude. Ever since i gave birth to my LO, he still never change. Is like phone and tv is his wife. I got to work, takecare LO and do housework. This is totally madness. He keeps initiate to have sex but I always reject him. Reason being that I'm too tired to even have sex. Don't have the 'feel' to do it.

Vô danh

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It really depends on their upbringing and examples set by their own father. So if your husband's father don't lift a finger, then it will take a mountain just for your husband to change. sometimes the change is only temporary. Try stop doing things for him. Also, when he initiate sex after a very exhausting day, voice it out.. "If you had helped me out initiatively, I would be in the mood right now. But I am just too exhausted for anything now."

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Home Random Talk anyone having same problems husband wont really help with housework unless i tell him many times then give unwilling attitude ever since i gave birth lo still never change like phone tv wife i got work takecare lo housework totally madness keeps initiate have sex but i always reject him reason being that im too tired have sex dont have feel