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Hi. Anyone had experienced with self abortion? Currently 9w+ pregnant and have mental loads. This is my second baby. 1st born is 1y5m. Husband did not help much and I believe he won’t even the 2nd is born. Ada tak cara yang boleh? Maaf sebab tanya soalan macam ni, sekarang 4.30am. Tak tahu kenapa memang dapat rasa lepas bersalin nanti saya akan depress teruk. #2ndbaby  #9weeksPreggy

Soraya Rayboot · Answer

Sayang, I hear you, the overwhelm is real, especially with a toddler at home and feeling unsupported. But please, reach out to a doctor or go to a clinic today, even just to talk through what you're feeling. This isn't something to handle alone at 4.30am. What you're describing, the mental load, worry about depression, feeling like your husband isn't there, that's urgent and worth getting proper support for, whether that's counselling, talking to your gynae, or even a trusted family member. A few of us mums have been in that dark space too, and getting help early made all the difference. You're not alone in this, and you deserve real support, not just answers online. Please call your clinic or KKM's hotline, okay? Sending you a hug.

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