I really feel you on this, it must be such an overwhelming time to be going through both at once. Please know you are not alone, and it is okay to take things one small step at a time. Lean on the people around you, whether family or close friends, and do not be afraid to ask for help, because you really do not have to manage everything by yourself right now. Sending you so much strength and care, please do keep us posted on how you are doing lah.