Would you be angry / hurt if you find out your mil has introduced solid food to your baby without your knowledge or consent? Is it petty to feel this way? I was at lost when i heard she casually told me that. I wanted to be present for that. These kind of moments are so special to me. I thought i could have that. I was also worried as well, what if my child developed an allergy towards the fruit without my knowledge. I feel like its so tricky with my mil.