Baby momma

Anak sy 4M dah pandai cakap mommaaaa! Sangat clear dia jerit😂 sebab sy merajuk malas lyan dia, so bapak dia yg handle. Dia mula mula pandang muka saya, jerit maaaaa. Saya tak layan sy gi toilet, then dia jerit momma! Suami sy yg fokus main ml pun terkejut. hehe kalau bulan lepas anak separation anxiety dgn papa dia. Setiap hari sy terpaksa ikut suami gi kerja, berkampung dlm kereta bawak tilam anak. Masuk bulan ni anak pandai pujuk hati momma dia balek. Allah makbulkan doa saya, dapat anak laki yg anak mak🥰 sy sgup tahan penat, asalkan anak menangis nak sy. Dari dia menangis nak papa dia yg tgh kerja tu, boleh gila sy🥴

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Haha mama, ini bukan merajuk lagi, ini psychological warfare level expert! At 4 months, babies memang sudah recognize voices dan respond to patterns, so your little one sudah tau mama's voice = comfort, and he's clever enough to call for you when he needs you, that's actually a good sign of attachment. Honestly, a few of my mum friends went through the same separation anxiety phase dengan papa, and they said once baby starts showing preference like this, it usually means dia rasa secure enough to choose , not just cling in panic, so actually sweet lah even though exhausting. The fact that he's pujuk-ing you back is hilarious and honestly, savor this phase because one day dia akan ignore you completely for his friends! But seriously, try not to reward the crying too much by always rushing over when you're angry, sometimes babies need to learn papa is also safe, because one day you'll need a break and you don't want to be the only person who can settle him. Tapi I get it, the relief when they prefer you after worrying about their anxiety is real, congrats on the mama's boy!

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