Family prob

Hello. In all honesty hindi ko nakikita bakit kailangan mong maging affected sa mga actions nila. May sarili ka nang pamilya. Yun na dapat ang focus mo. So the only valid reason I can see is - meron kang existing na sama ng loob sa Father mo na NEVER na address, kaya dumagdag na lang itong bagong situation sa sama ng loob mo. Siguro dapat alamin mo sa sarili mo ano ba talaga ang ugat ng sama ng loob mo, at pag-usapan niyo ito ng father mo. In my understanding sa post mo, baka isang factor is jealousy towards the newborn stepsibling mo. Baka nagseselos ka na napagtutuunn ng pansin ni Father ang newborn niya na hindi mo narasanan? And maybe you think mas may karapatan sa attention and presence ang anak mo kesa sa stepsibling mo? 🤷🏻‍♀️ Or maybe hindi niya sinabi sayo bakit hindi na siya masyado nagpaparamdam at nalaman mo na lang, so you felt fooled or betrayed. No offense that's just my understanding on the matter. Pero ikaw ang nasa situation na yan kaya need mo siya i-figure out at pagusapan with your father. Para mag heal ka na, makapag move and makapagfocus sa sarili mong family ❤️

Well, you cannot control other people. You can only control your reaction to them. You're an adult right and baby na, right? Why not focus on what you can do to be the best mom for your child and not on these external factors. The only thing you can do is air out how you feel to your tatay and that's it.... 🤔