Am gonna be a FTM in 2 weeks and currently having mixed feelings. Nervous, anxious and just worried that the rship with the husband will change. Mummies, how do you feel when you get to see your baby for the first time and to have a new addition in your family? Would greatly appreciate all the assurance i can get.

Your relationship will definitely change. Having a new baby is a big challenge and both parties need to play an equal part to survive this new phase in your lives. I'm not going to sugarcoat it- it's going to be tough. Sleep deprivation can make people cranky and crazy. But it will all get better, and you just have to plough through the toughest part to enjoy the wonderful times your baby will bring you.