not sure. depends on your children.. though I grew up with that kind of parents, I have an inferiority complex that made me well liked by my boss bec. they always see me as someone that know boundaries and people pleaser that made me push beyond what I'm capable of. . I'm introvert and got so many insecurities (not sure if that's also part of the package having that kind of parents) all in all I came up just fine. and living comfortably,. married too. this time I know what should and shouldn't do.. thanks to my parents