Ahhh I totally feel you, mama, a few of us dalam mum circle ada yang sama situation, and honestly it's such a bittersweet phase jugak. The hormones are real, plus tengok anak sulung yang baru setahun tu memang boleh membuat hati jadi soft gila, especially bila you're physically exhausted and your body feels macam tak milik you anymore. What helped my friend is she started letting the eldest tidur sekali kadang-kadang during the day instead, no pressure at night bila kamu tak larat, but maybe cuddle time masa dia nap or early evening when your energy slightly better, so you both tak stressed out trying to make it happen kalau your pregnant body is screaming no. Your cium usap malam from the bed is enough love tau, dia feel it, and being present in the siang time when you boleh play properly is where it counts most right now.