friends with opposite sex

Is it acceptable to develop a close friendship with someone of the opposite sex after getting married? Is it appropriate to prioritize chatting with them first thing in the morning and last thing at night, even over your spouse? We've been best friends since forever so these kinds of thing don't feel like anything to me. But apparently, my husband thinks it's a form of cheating...

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It’s important to have boundaries with the opposite gender. Put yourself in your hub’s shoes, you wouldn’t want him to prioritise him talking to his female good friend over you right? Your husband should be your best friend.

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Honestly, I think that chatting to them first and last thing each day does seem a bit strange. If your spouse has a friend who does tt, would u mind? if u do, then it's probably better to stop yours.

No of course not. Move on, u are already married and ur husband thinks badly abt it already. It will affect ur marriage. Some things are not meant to continue.

i dropped all my friends immediately 2 months prior of getting married. draw a line. once you're married, your husband is your priority.

What if its the other way round, your husband doing it ?

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