if it sounded like an offer, then the decision is yours to make. but if it was an order, then talk to ur hubby to let him know how u feel. might give u PPD, and u dont want that. and if they're smart enough, they'll understand. u can compromise in return, not just an outright no.
Wag ka papayag,nakikita ko na mangyayare once na nakalipat kayo. Panigurado mawawalan ka ng karapatan sa anak mo. Sila na magdedecide niyan imbes na ikaw,baka ikaw na magmukang MIL imbes na magulang ng bata.
Red flag na yan ganyang si MIL mo nag desisyon. Aba pala desisyon sya! Di ka man tinanong kung okay sayo? Mas magandang mag bukod promise. Mahirap man pero kakayanin
wag ka pumayag haha kahit mabait sila sayo. no no no. magmumuka kang walang alam pagtumira ka sa mil mo. palagi sila tama. magmumuka ka lang yaya ng apo nila. no.
Talk to your husband about it. it would be best if visit nalang mil mo from time to time to help. Don't settle for something you're not comfortable with
I'm sorry to say this but why cant you just simply voice it out.... If you dont want to then dont go why have to torture yourself
Tiisin mo lang onti okay yan habang nag papa galing ka. Pero pag magaling kana uwi na kayo ulit.
Tere SC