Aww, I feel you! A month post-CS is still super early, your body is literally healing from major surgery, so it's totally valid na gusto mong rest muna bago mag-resume ng intimacy. A few of us moms in my circle waited around 6-8 weeks para sa full clearance from OB, pero honestly kahit after that, maraming factors, bleeding pa, exhaustion, breastfeeding schedule, yung anxiety pa lalo if painful. Maybe talk to your Mister gently about the timeline and reassure him na soon lang once you're ready, kaya walang tampo? Sending you healing vibes, this phase passes quickly!