WEI XIN, Singapore

My bbg have been in infant care as soon as she turned 2 months. The teachers are trained and they are caring. It is such a life saver really. From 7-7pm, i can do so many things (most exciting is sleep!). After i fetch her, ill shower and feed , rock her to sleep. It makes me enjoy motherhood a little more, slows down time for me to be a girl rather than a mom always. But of course make sure u arrange for a school tour to go in and see whats the schedule like and more importantly the teachers. Are they caring Sunflower preschool at clementi. If you search on google, they only have one google star review (3 years ago) and its not that good… but since its near to me, i took a leap of faith. Honestly for me, i m glad i did. Find one near to u https://www.ecda.gov.sg/parents/preschool-search-portal I used this. Do set the search setting for infant care centers instead of preschools.

Its ok to stop breastmilk my mummies! Though yes the process when stopping is tough and u might feel super guilty. But tbvh, breastmilk is overrated not so much of a big deal. Ya sure breastmilk has antibodies and all but formula has got every nutrients that is needed for your baby body development which also means that eventually baby will be able to develop properly because of sufficient nutrients. Thats for me, i think i need proper rest to take care of baby happily. Anyways here’s a article for yall to consider. If u ever decide to join me, remember to stay firm on wanting to stop breastfeeding. Good luck my friends! Don’t worry alright. Its ur body, ur decision. Not even ur husband can stop u. https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/emily-oster-breastfeeding-formula-data-180433565.html

Please get one!! To all pregnant mommies out there, this is my regret!! Because i thought i was young (20) and should be able to bounce back very quickly after giving birth. I was naive back then!!!! I rejected all help to get a CN but i wished i had fought harder to get one. If u dont want a confinement nanny, at least have a caretaker or just any one at all that can help u take care of the baby while u heal from delivery. Normal delivery or c sec, all pain is pain and we just have to heal from it. The physical and mental pain after delivery is simply just unbearable. It does get better, but still super super tiring. If u want proper rest and sleep, do feed formula. If not u will be waking up to pump or breastfeed every 1 to 2 hour( or even less) There’s little to no time to recover !! Mad respect to all the single moms and all moms in general.

MY MUMMY FRIENDS!! I have some good things to share if u are pumping! First, invest in hands free wearable pump (i m using breast friends forever), do housework when pumping! Win win! Second and most importantly apply cooking coconut oil or olive oil !! This was the very factor that made me contemplate whether should I continue pumping because my nipples are so damn sore! Now with lubing, i feel much much much more comfortable (no more pain) and it encourages me to continue pumping! #goodthingsmustshare

Hey yall, I do be feeling kinda lonely being pregnant sometimes because i am only 19 year old and still in poly. Finding some mummies who are about the same age range as me so we can deal with pregnancy and life after together.